Motherhood That Is Being Traded

With nanny and surrogacy culture,modern women have stepped out for liberating themselves from giving birth naturally to raising their young ones though some of the mothers I know are hard core professionals like engineers and lawyers yet managing their work and motherhood quite successfully.Though it's true that surrogate mothers can earn huge sum by bearing a child for some body else,but the truth is that some people have been so rich that they can afford to buy everything,from hiring a womb or a person to enjoy their parenthood.

It is needless to say that we have taken such ideas from the West still we have missed out many of their good ideas while picking up their trashes.If something doesn't happen naturally,it is not meant to be,and many women have accepted this fact.They therefore opt for adoption rather than surrogacy as the former not only gives them a chance of being a parent but also finds an orphan a home full of love if only they are able to accept it as a nobility.Because parenthood is a blessing if we can become a good one.

"Seven Years In Tibet"

Books are truly our greatest discovery and our truest friend and a good book is an addiction.We read one chapter going to the next but still captured by the awe inspiring events of the previous one.It's a mystic journey for those who love being alone with nothing but an influential guide in the form of a good book.As I was always inspired by my grand father from whom I had received a miniature library of different topics,the best ones were traveling accounts of eminent people like Rahul Sankrityayan and Uma Prashad Mukherjee.This one by Heinrich Harrer is just like one of those.Such spiritual pursuits cannot be seen in current generation as we are too busy running after nothingness.

The Ultimate Sport

All sporting activities are essentially physical game and mountaineering is one of them.I call it ultimate because those who perform inhumane tasks by fighting all odds of environment to reach the summit are the one to be called heros.Our Indian Army becomes the first to reach Mt. Everest every year when its climbing season opens.ITBP too takes part in Everest climbing and if one closely follows the account of their epic journey,they are bound to salute these heros,not just for being on the top of the world but for having the acumen to endure all fatal bearings that they overcome.

Everest is not just a mountain but it's a pinnacle of success,a mesmerizing surprise to all those who has gone to conquer it.In their own words,Everest never forgives impatience,ignorance and arrogance.When mountaineers reach at its feet just before they start their onward journey,they are given a special 2 months training,to acclimatize themselves,because they are about to enter "death zone" for their summit bid.So many mountaineers have died on their way up,many on their way down but their names have been written in history of climbing Everest because they did push themselves beyond death to achieve their success.

When I read about our Prime Minister's plan of task force to train our Olympians for next time,I cannot stop thinking about our Indian Army and ITBP people because they are no less than miracles.I would like to request our " Pradhan Sevak" to lessen their burden with care,keep them engaged in bringing victory to their motherland,not by using them against baffled region but giving them opportunity by signing them into our next Olympic team and any other international sporting events that they can once again glorify our country.

आज़ादी के 69 साल

वैसे तो 60 साल में कोई भी इंसान senior citizen कहलाता है मगर इस "बुढ़िया" का अभी भी जन्मदिन मनाया जाता है,हर साल,बड़े शोर शराबे से।British से आज़ादी पाने के लिए न जाने कितने ही जाने गए,कितने थे उनमें से जो की ठीक से खिले भी नहीं थे,19,20,21।सब शहीद हुए थे।किस लिए ता की उनके आनेवाली पीढ़ियां आज़ादी से जिए,बिना लड़ाई के,बिना ज़बरदस्ती और ज़िल्लत के।विदेशियों से आज़ाद होने के बाद हमने अपने लिए नेता चुने और आज वो भी वही करने लगे जो विदेशी शाषण ने हमारे लोगों के साथ किया।वाह क्या नेता चुने हम ने।

कुछ है जो काम से ज्यादा भाषणबाजी करते है।कुछ अपनी क्षमता का गलत उपयोग और कुछ तो कुछ भी नहीं,बस काम के नाम पर आराम करते है।अभी भी इस देश में करने को बहुत कुछ रह गया।भारत मुल्क के पढ़ेलिखे लोग जहाँ भी जाते है वहां उनका सम्मान किया जाता है।वही इस देश के नेता,कहीं भी जाते तो भारत का नाम डुबाकर लौटते है।देश के हर कोने में उग्रवादी और आतंकी संगठनों ने जाल बिछाया हुआ है फिर भी किसी international खेल में हिस्सा लेने गए भारत के खिलाड़ी हमारे नाम मिट्टी में मिलाकर वापस आते है।ये तो सिर्फ कुछ झलकियां है।असली picture तो बहुत लंबी है।

PM अगर अपनी तुलना किसी चुनी हुई modern developed superpower देशों से करते है तो हंसी आती है।क्यों अपनी देश का cartoon बना रहे हो ता की जग हंसे।जितना है उसकी रक्षा कर लो तो काफ़ी है।पड़ोसी देश चीन और पाकिस्तान हम भारतवासियों को taken for granted समझते है।उन्हें लगता है कि अगर लड़ाई करके हमसे देश का ये कोना या वो कोना ले जायेंगे तो हमारी औकात नहीं है उससे लड़ने की और अपना हिस्सा वापस लेने की।सच में,हम नपुंसकों से भरे है।

एक तो देश के जवानों के पास arms और ammunitions की कमी है उपड़ से आये दिन अलग अलग जगहों पर हर लफड़ों से लड़ने उन्हें भेजा जाता है।क्या नेतायों के पास इतना भी समय नहीं ता की वो हर प्रदेश के लिए ऐसा plan बनाये की ये नौबत ही न आये?और opposition भी क्या चीज़ है।Public fund से चलनेवाली संसद को भी drama करने का stage बना रखा है।ऐसा चलता रहेगा तो कोहिनूर वापसी तो दूर की बात है,ये देश फिर से बिकेगी,विदेशियों के हाथ में और चूँकि सरकार के हाथ में सारा प्रबंधन होते हुए भी इतना सब कुछ देश की जनता के साथ हो रहा है,सिर्फ वही इनके लिए ज़िम्मेदार होंगे।

Burning Kashmir

http://m.greaterkashmir.com/news/front-page/kashmir-atrocities-defaming-india-globally-farooq-abdullah/226195.html

It's true that Nehru did the pioneering task of a volatile Kashmir but current government has crossed all limit and created a civil war like situation.The present scenario will not improve unless our government comes to a compromise and give them certain liberty.I know many are opposing this view but in a humanitarian point of view this is the only solution that can bring the present condition to a peaceful end.No religion or accountability is bigger than humanity.Forceful annexation will only keep it boiling under the carpet.

A Patriarch Society and Girls

India as we know is a country of women slavery,dowry deaths,infanticide and foeticide and lots of discrimination over thousands of years.Where boys are catered more than girls because they are thought to be flag bearer of a family or tradition.Thereby,many believe that boys will earn us more points than girls.With lot of advancement girls have outshined boys in a number of fields.But the highest mockery of those patronizing evils against girls or women overall is taking place in Rio Olympics where out of 118 or 119 only two girls with a third one missed by a few inches have just blown off those Mesopotamian theories.I always feel proud of girls or women who prove themselves more efficient than boys or men.

A very good article

http://indianexpress.com/article/opinion/columns/pm-modi-balochistan-remark-independence-day-speech-india-pakistan-2981612/

Modi ji might have poked a finger in his Pakistan counterpart's eyes and shown them this is what we can do if Pakistan doesn't stop inciting violence in Kashmir and break ceasefire along borders.

Leader Vs Salesman

A leader should be just like a teacher because a leader intends to improve the conditions of people en mass and that's too not for their own benefit.When a politician calls himself a leader,s/he is a liar.

A salesman is out to sell his stuff and not improving other's lives but their own,company and personal profit.When a salesman starts calling himself a leader,that's the end of the road for his nation.

A spiritual leader can be called a good leader because what they do is to benefit other people and not himself.They influence others to live a good life and state how.That's what a real teacher is.That's why guru Ravi Shankar says "a leader should be spiritual and not religious."

Business Or Politics

Countries like US,Russia,Israel etc. are arms manufacturer.So they would like to see the whole world fighting each other.But if Pen Is Mightier Than Sword then I think we all can follow Churchill as he used his strong words against arms till the war was inevitable for the British.My concern is if crimes against humanity can be fought with humanitarian point of view then no more Hafiz Sayed could alter our Kashmiri people's mind or let ISIL displaying their flags in Indian town.I was happy to hear a few Muslim leaders condemning terrorist organizations.Since poverty and greed are two main reasons that mislead our youth and sway them to devilish activities,these can be taken care of by providing them employment.But it is also important to make them aware of their false prophet's magnetic power that ultimately carry them to their grave.

What is religion?

Religion is humanity,human values and unity against all malformations of the society.Hindus and Muslims constitute majority of our population yet they are politically divided,for the sake of different political leaders and their personal interests and not for the benefit of any Hindu or Muslim.If these two groups are united within our country then no one,absolutely no one can break them.For which the only need is education because it raises awareness.But education is limited to people in the name of accessibility,socio economic strata and various other factors including locality.When purpose of a religion is not truly served,there is no need to put it as a decoram on our forehead.All these wars,black and white,upper and lower castes,Hindus and Muslims are nothing but soap operas,to benefit a few corrupted politicians of our society.Unless we ourselves don't defend ourselves,no one can.